Finding Your Guiding Star: The Power of Purpose in Building Resilience ✨

communication skills purpose the phoenix Feb 12, 2024

Imagine standing on a windswept mountaintop, facing a vast and stormy landscape. You feel the cold bite of the wind, the uncertainty churning your stomach. But within you, a flicker of warmth ignites – a beacon guiding you through the storm. That beacon is your purpose, the north star that fuels your resilience and propels you forward. 🐯

But what truly ignites this inner strength? It's your purpose. ✨

But wait, what exactly is "purpose"? It's not just some lofty ideal or grand ambition. It's the underlying "why" that drives you, the values and passions that ignite your soul and give your life meaning. It's the answer to the question: "What truly matters to me?"

Finding your purpose isn't always a straightforward journey. It involves introspection, exploration, and, sometimes, a healthy dose of trial and error. To unlock your guiding star, imagine yourself as a multifaceted gem, reflecting the different roles you play in life. Let's explore them:

The Passionate Self: What activities make you lose track of time? What skills or talents are you naturally drawn to? Dive into hobbies, volunteer work, or even online communities that spark your enthusiasm. This "passionate self" ignites the fire within, suggesting values that resonate deeply with you.
The Connected Self: We're social creatures, and our relationships play a crucial role in shaping our purpose. Consider the causes you care about, the values you share with loved ones, and the communities you feel connected to. This "connected self" reflects how you want to contribute to something bigger than yourself.
The Impactful Self: Imagine leaving a positive mark on the world. What issues stir your empathy? What problems do you dream of solving? Consider your strengths and aspirations, and envision how you can make a difference. This "impactful self" reflects your desire to leave a lasting legacy.

☀️ By examining these facets, you'll start uncovering the threads that weave together your unique purpose. Remember, it's not about finding a single, predefined answer. Your purpose can be a multifaceted tapestry, evolving and growing as you do.

So, how does purpose fuel resilience? Here's the magic:

Clarity and Direction: In the face of challenges, your purpose acts as a compass, guiding you through murky waters. It helps you prioritize what truly matters and avoid getting swept away by distractions.
Motivation and Perseverance: When things get tough, remembering your "why" rekindles the fire within. It gives you the strength to push through obstacles and persevere, knowing your struggles contribute to a bigger purpose.
Meaning and Hope: Even setbacks hold meaning when viewed through the lens of purpose. Knowing you're working towards something significant makes challenges bearable and setbacks temporary.

Now, don't be discouraged if your purpose isn't crystal clear yet. The journey of discovery is itself a building block of resilience. Remember, the most vibrant stars aren't born overnight; they twinkle gradually, accumulating the dust of experiences and self-reflection. 🌟

Here are some action steps to spark your purpose exploration:

Keep a purpose journal: Reflect on daily experiences, noting moments that bring you joy, fulfillment, or a sense of contribution.
Talk to your "flock": Seek insights from loved ones, mentors, or inspiring individuals who know you well. Ask them what they see as your strengths and values.
Experiment and explore: Don't be afraid to try new things, volunteer for different causes, or delve into unfamiliar fields. Stepping outside your comfort zone can trigger unexpected discoveries.

As you embark on this exploration, remember your purpose is a journey, not a destination. Embrace the twists and turns, celebrate the discoveries, and let your inner resilience soar, guided by the ever-brightening light of your unique purpose.

Throughout our upcoming course, we will explore the transformative power of resilience – the ability to rise above adversity, stronger and more vibrant than before. We will delve into the tools and strategies you can use to navigate life's challenges. ♀️♂️ (If you would like to learn more, see the link below Resilience - Rise Again in the Bond of the Phoenix)

Yours in the Bond of the Phoenix

Bernie Tiger

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🐅 How do you actually communicate under pressure?

Most people think they know how they show up in difficult conversations. Most are surprised when they slow down long enough to look honestly.

The Tiger Mirror is a short, guided self-assessment designed to help you recognize your communication pattern under stress. Not labels. Not judgment. Just clarity.

If you’ve ever stayed quiet, pushed too hard, or walked away replaying conversations in your head, this mirror was built for you.

👉 Step into the Tiger Mirror here - answer these 10 questions below and submit for your results!

When someone interrupts you mid-sentence, your most common response is:

A. I stop talking and let them finish, even if my point never gets said

B. I push back immediately and speak louder or faster

C. I let it go in the moment, but feel frustrated afterward

D. I pause, then calmly reclaim the floor and continue my thought

You are asked to take on extra responsibility that you do not have capacity for. What usually happens?

A. I agree, even though I know it will stretch me too thin

B. I respond sharply or defensively

C. I say yes outwardly, but feel resentful and withdrawn later

D. I acknowledge the request and state what I can realistically take on

When conflict starts to rise in a conversation, you tend to:

A. Shut down and hope it passes

B. Lean in aggressively to regain control

C. Avoid the issue and replay the conversation later in my head

D. Stay present and focus on clarity rather than winning

If someone misunderstands your intention, your first instinct is to:

A. Let it go, even if it feels unfair

B. Correct them forcefully

C. Say nothing, but feel misunderstood afterward

D. Clarify your intention calmly and directly

When you need to ask for something important, how does it usually feel?

A. Uncomfortable. I worry about being a burden

B. Urgent. I feel tense and keyed up

C. Heavy. I delay it longer than I should

D. Grounded. I feel prepared to ask clearly

After a difficult conversation, you are most likely to:

A. Question whether I should have said anything at all

B. Feel justified but still unsettled

C. Replay the conversation repeatedly

D. Feel clear about what I said, regardless of the outcome

When someone crosses a boundary you care about, you usually:

A. Say nothing and adjust myself instead

B. Call it out strongly in the moment

C. Pull back emotionally or distance myself later

D. Address it directly and explain the impact

In high-pressure situations, your voice and body language tend to:

A. Get quieter or smaller

B. Become tense or forceful

C. Stay controlled outwardly but tight internally

D. Remain steady and intentional

When expressing disagreement, you are most likely to:

A. Avoid it to keep the peace

B. State your position bluntly

C. Hint at your disagreement rather than say it outright

D. Express your perspective while respecting the other person

When you think about assertive communication, what resonates most?

A. I know I should speak up more, but it feels risky

B. I speak up, but it often escalates

C. I wish I could say what I mean without tension afterward

D. I want to strengthen consistency and confidence in my voice

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Finding Your Guiding Star: The Power of Purpose in Building Resilience ✨

Resilience - Rise Again in the Bond of the Phoenix!!

🐅 How do you actually communicate under pressure?

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