One More Day: Why Showing Up Is the Most Powerful Choice You’ll Ever Make

Christmas Day invites reflection.
For some, it’s full of joy and connection. For others, it’s quiet, heavy, or complicated. And for many, it’s simply another day of showing up and doing the best they can.

Wherever you find yourself today, know this. You don’t have to feel anything in particular to be worthy of hope. If you woke up this morning, you were given another chance. Another opportunity to choose forward motion, even if that motion is small.

This reflection is for anyone who is still standing.
Still trying.
Still choosing to show up.

That, in itself, is resilience.

Christmas Day Post

Tomorrow.
That was the word I leaned on more than any other during the hardest season of my life.

Not because tomorrow promised relief.
Not because tomorrow is guaranteed to change.

But because tomorrow meant another chance to choose.

And when you’re cold, hurting, and unsure how long the road is, sometimes the bravest decision you can make is simply this:

Show up one more day.

Pain

This is for anyone who feels worn down by life.
For those who have been carrying weight for a long time.
For those who feel like progress has been slow, invisible, or painfully hard-won.

If you’ve ever thought:
“I don’t know how much longer I can do this.”
“I keep trying, but nothing seems to change.”
“I’m exhausted, and I’m not sure it’s worth it.”

This message is for you.

Because perseverance doesn’t ask you to see the whole path.
It only asks you to take the next step.

Tenacity Before Transformation

When I was seventeen, living homeless in Central Park during December, life didn’t turn around quickly. There was no moment where everything suddenly improved. No dramatic rescue. No overnight transformation.

What there was… was choice.

Every morning, I had a decision to make.
Stay down — or get up.
Give in — or keep going.
Disappear — or show up for myself again.

Some days that choice felt heavy.
Other days it felt automatic.
But every single day, it mattered.

I didn’t know who I would become back then.
I only knew that quitting would decide my future for me — and I wasn’t willing to hand that power away.

That’s what tenacity really is.

Not heroic endurance.
Not blind optimism.
But consistent self-respect in motion.

The Shift

Here’s the truth that changed my life:

You don’t become strong by waiting for strength.
You become strong by choosing forward motion — repeatedly.

Tenacity is not about ignoring pain.
It’s about refusing to let pain have the final word.

Each day you show up, even imperfectly, something begins to change.
Not always your circumstances — but you.

Your posture shifts.
Your confidence deepens.
Your identity hardens around the truth that you are capable.

This is the Tiger — steady, rooted, refusing to fold.
This is the Phoenix — not rising once, but rising daily through choice.

The Five Pillars of Tiger Resilience Through Tenacity

Purpose 🎯 (Heart)

Purpose doesn’t always clarify the destination.
Sometimes it simply answers the question, “Why not quit?”

Planning 🗺️ (Mind)

Tenacity plans for survival first, progress second.
It focuses on the next step, not the whole staircase.

Practice 🔄 (Body)

Showing up daily builds resilience faster than motivation ever could.

Perseverance 🏔️ (Spirit)

This is perseverance in its truest form — staying engaged when quitting feels easier.

Providence 🌅 (Spirit)

Providence often meets us after persistence, not before.
Meaning reveals itself over time.

The Four Domains of Daily Perseverance

Body 💪

Your body learns endurance before your mind believes in possibility.

Mind 🧠

Consistency quiets fear and builds focus.

Heart ❤️

Self-respect grows when you honor your effort.

Spirit 🔥

A deep inner conviction forms: I can keep going.

Why Showing Up Changes Everything

People often underestimate the power of staying in motion.

But tenacity compounds.

Every day you show up, you reinforce a truth:
I am not done.

And that truth begins to shape how others see you — and how opportunities find you.

Eventually, circumstances shift.
Support appears.
Doors open.

But by then, the most important transformation has already happened.

You trust yourself.

Phoenix Steps: Practicing Tenacity This Season

Define success as showing up.
Not outcomes. Not perfection.

Shrink your focus to today.
One decision. One action.

Honor effort over results.
Progress isn’t always visible.

Refuse self-abandonment.
Even when you’re tired.

Choose again tomorrow.
That’s how lives change.

Journal Prompts

What does “showing up” look like for me right now?

Where have I underestimated my own endurance?

How has persistence already shaped who I am?

What choice can I make today that honors my future self?

What would change if I trusted myself more deeply?

RISE

Tenacity is not dramatic.
It doesn’t announce itself.
It doesn’t demand recognition.

But it changes lives.

Every day you choose to show up, you are shaping your future — quietly, powerfully, and intentionally.

As this year comes to a close, remember this:

You are free to choose your life at any moment.
As long as you can get your head off the pillow, you have another chance.
And every chance matters.

📍Please leave a comment or reply on how you show up.

Rise Strong and Live Boldly in the Bond of the Phoenix. 🐅🔥

Bernie & Michael Tiger

Tiger Resilience Founders

This post was written by Bernie Tiger

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